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Dating for Women Who Date Women

Sapphic Match is a dating site for lesbian, bisexual, bicurious and queer women. It exists for a simple reason: dating is easier when you do not have to explain yourself. Here you can say who you are and who you are looking for, meet people who want the same, and take things at your own pace, with tools that help you feel safe and a support team on hand around the clock. This page sets out what we promise and the rules everyone follows.

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What we promise

Women who date women come first.

Lesbian, bisexual, bicurious and queer women are who this site is for.

Your information stays yours.

Your real name and email are never shown publicly, and personal information is never disclosed to third parties.

Respect is the rule.

The community rules below apply to everyone, and harassment is not tolerated.

Help is always there.

Customer care is available 24/7, all year round.

Community rules

Eight simple rules

They apply to everyone.

  1. Adults only

    The site is strictly 18+.

  2. Genuine members only

    Protection measures are in place so only real people can join, and members cannot market goods or services.

  3. Be kind

    Treat others online the way you want to be treated, and let people down respectfully.

  4. Be tolerant

    Members come from all backgrounds. Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism and other discrimination or hate speech are not allowed.

  5. Be safe

    Keep first conversations on the site so they can be monitored. Never share bank details, and never send money or gift cards.

  6. Be discreet

    Not everyone wants to be recognized in the real world, so only approach a member in public if they have given explicit consent.

  7. Respect boundaries

    Harassment is not tolerated: if someone says no, move on. Ask for consent before sharing images.

  8. Follow the law

    No messages or media about illegal activity, including violence or drugs.

Two quick answers

What does VIP include?

VIP members get unlimited messaging, priority support and the ability to see who has been viewing their profile.

How do I report someone?

Report any member or content from within the site, and block a member to stop them contacting you or seeing you.

Ready when you are

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Joining is free, and you choose what you share.

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