Free to join
The Dating Site for Lesbians
Sapphic Match is a dating site for lesbians, and for bisexual, bicurious and queer women who want to meet someone real. Make a free profile, say what you are looking for, and browse lesbian singles near you who want the same thing, whether that is a first date, a partner or a friend who gets it. Chat privately, follow your live Activity Feed and decide what you share. Support is here around the clock.
- Free to join
- Free ID verification
- Adults 18+ only
Why Sapphic Match
A site for women who date women
This online lesbian dating app was created specifically for lesbian dating, so it is not a mainstream dating site with a filter added on. Everyone here is looking for the same thing. They all want to find that special someone who checks all the boxes. With your free membership you can browse, message, and connect with someone who may be your perfect match. There is no obligation to upgrade. Many women have met great matches on our free tier, but VIPs have many more options available. Step in and have a look around to see if this dating community is for you.
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Made for women who love women
Lesbian, bisexual, bicurious women are the whole point here, not a setting you have to hunt for.
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Go at your own pace
Browse for free, message privately and take your time before you share more.
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Real people, checked
Free ID verification adds a badge to a profile, so you can see who has been verified.
Meeting someone, step by step
Say what you are looking for
Describe yourself, what you enjoy and what you want, from something casual to something lasting.
Find women near you
Search by location, see who is close and start a chat when someone catches your eye.
How it works
Four steps to a first hello
Free to start, with nothing to download.
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Create your profile
Sign up with your email and tell us about you and who you want to meet.
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Browse nearby
Look through profiles and photos and see who is close to you.
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Say hello
Send a private message. Free members can send a set number each day.
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Go VIP if you like
VIP adds unlimited messaging and advanced search filters.
How it works
How lesbian dating works on Sapphic Match
Sapphic Match is a lesbian dating site built around getting to know people, not just swiping.
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Daily suggestions
You get matches each day based on your age range, who you want to meet, distance, recent activity, relationship goals and shared interests.
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A community, not just a search box
The live Activity Feed is where members share posts, photos and comments, and take part in polls and quizzes. It is an easy way to see who someone is before you say hello.
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Private conversation
Send one-to-one private messages, take your time and share more when you are ready.
Choosing a site
What to look for in a lesbian dating site
Lesbian dating sites are not all alike. Whether you are comparing lesbian dating apps or sites, these are worth checking. Sapphic Match is built around them, to help you make meaningful connections with women near you.
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Who it is built for
On Sapphic Match, lesbian, bisexual, bicurious and queer women are the whole point, not a setting you have to hunt for.
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Whether you can tell who is real
Free ID verification adds a badge to a profile. A live video check with a moderator is also available, and the team validates profiles.
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What you control
You use a username, so your real name and email are not shown. Only your nearest town or city is shown, and you can block members or report anyone from inside the site.
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Whether the site helps you spot trouble
Sapphic Match alerts you if someone tries to move the conversation to another app, and sensitive images are blurred with a warning first. There are also built-in safe dating tips.
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Whether there is a person to talk to
Support is here 24/7.
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What it costs to start
Joining is free, and VIP is optional. Read more on our safety page.
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Free
Build a profile, browse members, get daily suggestions and send a limited number of private messages each day.
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VIP
Adds unlimited messaging, advanced search filters and private group chats of up to 50 people.
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VIP Plus
Adds the ability to see everyone who likes you and priority placement in matches.
Questions before you join
Is Sapphic Match free?
Joining is free. You can build a profile, browse members and send a limited number of messages each day. VIP is optional and adds unlimited messaging and more. See everything members can do on our features page.
Who is it for?
Lesbian, bisexual, bicurious and queer women who want to date women. You decide what goes on your profile.
How do I know people are real?
Free ID verification adds a badge to a profile, and a live video check with a moderator is also available. Verification is optional, so look for the badge. Read how we help you stay safe.
Is it private?
Your details are kept secure. You choose what to share and when, and your personal information is never disclosed to third parties.
Will it fill my inbox?
No. We only email about updates to your profile, and you can opt out at any time.
Is Sapphic Match a lesbian dating app or a website?
It is an online dating site you use in your browser, with nothing to download. You get the same things you would expect from a lesbian dating app: profiles, private chat and a live Activity Feed.
Can I join if I am bisexual, bicurious or queer?
Yes. Sapphic Match is for lesbian, bisexual, bicurious and queer women who want to date women.
How old do I have to be?
Members must be 18 or over. Age is estimated automatically, with further checks where the law requires them.
What if someone asks to move our chat somewhere else?
We alert you to attempts to move conversations to other apps. Keep first conversations on the site, never send money or share bank details, and block or report anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Read our guides
Short, practical guides for lesbians and other women who date women: how to write a lesbian dating profile, first date ideas and how to meet other lesbians.